tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post8572792299217125383..comments2023-06-04T09:57:19.942-04:00Comments on All-American Jess: Please Remember MeJesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05822486137387353123noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-67183197807772866242011-06-04T09:36:50.306-04:002011-06-04T09:36:50.306-04:00:( I totally empathize with you. It's so hard...:( I totally empathize with you. It's so hard to move forward from this feeling with those relationships because you always find yourself second guessing their true intentions for including you. You are a TERRIFIC friend, one that I wish were nearer to Kentucky because you are such a blessing in everyone's lives. Hugs.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11392670505606813998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-70390532014298947592011-06-04T08:48:53.968-04:002011-06-04T08:48:53.968-04:00Oh, hun, I am so sorry. You really are such a gre...Oh, hun, I am so sorry. You really are such a great person - I know you because of the texts and gifts and phone calls you've sent to me - and I hate that you're forgotten.<br /><br />I, for one, am not a great communicator in return all the time. But I hate that it hurts such sweet, well-meaning people's feelings like you!<br /><br />Just know...you are not doing anything wrong!Brittany Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04316417410513395767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-83559730921025245102011-06-03T15:01:44.358-04:002011-06-03T15:01:44.358-04:00Oh honey! Believe I can COMPLETELY relate! I reme...Oh honey! Believe I can COMPLETELY relate! I remember crying in my mom's lap the week after I had Lena because hardly anyone called, and just a few people sent any sort of card or flower! And I am ALWAYS the first to do/call when something like that happens in other's lives! It's hard!! But those that matter will not forget, or truly will make it right! And unfortunately, atleast in my case, you just have to stop doing for so many all the time, quit being taken advantage of, and focus your energy more where it's appreciated! I hate that you feel this way, it's absolutely gut wrenching! Praying you feel some peace soon!!Ashley Bellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14431221581640916664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-55251336415917810532011-06-03T00:41:35.850-04:002011-06-03T00:41:35.850-04:00Wow, I am totally wondering the same thing. I'...Wow, I am totally wondering the same thing. I'm actually about to write about a similar situation I'm in. So sad that these things happen. From what I've read on your blog we are so, so similar!Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05080711318620976189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-24593938477527757102011-06-02T17:42:04.150-04:002011-06-02T17:42:04.150-04:00We used to entertain so much, but rarely hardly ev...We used to entertain so much, but rarely hardly ever got invited to anyone else's home :( so over a period of time I just quit. I miss the get togethers and the ones I truly was so loyal to have simply continued having fun with others that I'm not close to. It hurts, especially when it's within your congregation. Then I realize just who the true friends are and I feel blessed that I don't have to deal with high maintenance friends ;) Oh, and I heard a guest on Oprah recently say "You have an approval addiction" and I do! I have to have the approval of those around me and try so hard to work to deserve it. I'm trying hard to break that habit.Nancy Hoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08960887401770810071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-31551899841062776762011-06-02T13:00:39.600-04:002011-06-02T13:00:39.600-04:00I JUST talked about this issue with my therapist t...I JUST talked about this issue with my therapist this week...I don't understand why it is so hard to be a friend.<br /><br />I am sorry you are having a rough time...<br /><br />I hope your heart heals and you can be back to enjoying things like before.<br /><br />Hugs!Jannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09118745344936854316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-17830043126563593352011-06-02T11:36:32.198-04:002011-06-02T11:36:32.198-04:00Like everyone else....been there. It sucks. And yo...Like everyone else....been there. It sucks. And you know what? You have every right to feel what you feel. Your feelings are valid! You are loved, just remember that.Katie @ Loves of Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07841348340467277988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-30927602516574750102011-06-02T11:33:36.049-04:002011-06-02T11:33:36.049-04:00Ugh! Girl, that truly is one of the WORST feelings...Ugh! Girl, that truly is one of the WORST feelings ever. :( I'm sorry. :(Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14815407660365883762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-43869692134218000332011-06-02T10:52:36.913-04:002011-06-02T10:52:36.913-04:00I think I know this feeling, too. To try your har...I think I know this feeling, too. To try your hardest to make sure everyone around you feels loved and happy, and then be left out or unrecognized with something that should be a no-brainer is just awful.<br /><br />It shouldn't be a reason to stop being yourself, though. For as many times as there are times like these, there are times that your actions means more than you know. And that makes it worth it.tyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02614130180180710002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4762345038309484326.post-76719702204740540012011-06-02T10:34:46.273-04:002011-06-02T10:34:46.273-04:00This post? Is EXACTLY what I've wanted to writ...This post? Is EXACTLY what I've wanted to write the past two weeks but haven't because, unfortunately, the people it would be about read my blog. Although, I may write a post that says, "Wondering how I'm feeling? Read this post by sista from anutha mista." <br /><br />& you know what? You truly are one of the best friends a girl could ask for. I know, without a doubt, you'd do anything for the ones you love. You are SO good about sending those little reminders, "hey, I'm here for you & thinking about you." And in case I haven't told you, that means more to me than you will ever know. <br /><br />We need a phone date, so we can both vent. So sorry you've been hurt, but know that I am always here for you, anytime, any day. <br /><br />Love ya, twin!<br /><br />PS, can I move to florida yet?Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00844401897114561584noreply@blogger.com