Friday, July 6, 2012

Ummmmm...... Whoops?

So, I know I said that I was going to recap my "Tuesday Coffee Dates" thusfar, on Tuesday.

However, this needed to be told now.

Last Tuesday, I met with "Bachelor #3." He was super nice. Very, very sweet. He was also extremely quiet. Like, we talked, but I was mentally trying to go through a list of what I could bring up next. After about an hour and fifteen minutes, I made noises about having a few things to do and we said our goodbyes.

He gave me a hug and I told him to let me know if he wanted to hang out, again. I meant it. He was really nice and I'd be willing to give it a shot. My stepdad Mike (the one who passed away) was super quiet, so I know how that goes. While quiet is usually not what I go for (I tend to go for guys that are more outgoing than me), I recognize that there are some AWESOME men out there that are not the most talkative.

Anyway, he texted me the next day (good sign). Told me that he had a nice time and asked if he seemed quiet. I said I had a nice time and told him that he was "a bit on the quiet side." He said that he tends to be that way at first.

To which I responded, "Quiet isn't always a bad thing, lol."

Then, nothing.


I honestly was a little puzzled, but basically decided to let it go. I mean, I have enough trouble with the guys who DO text/call but apparently don't want me. If a guy doesn't text or call, I figure that's a pretty obvious sign.

Fast-forward to yesterday. I was going through a bunch of texts, trying to weed out the ones I didn't need anymore. His was fairly far down by this point, but my eyes scanned my last text to him.

I'll let the pictures tell the rest.......



He has yet to text me, again, lol.

I'd already accepted that I probably would never hear from him again..... I just felt REALLY bad when I realized it was because I was accidentally a complete bitch to him :/

Anyway, we can pretty much write that one off. Overall, I figure that if he didn't feel the need to clarify my boo-boo..... and, isn't interested in pursuing anything after my boo-boo.... then, he's probably not "The One."

I will just be a little more careful with my texts from now one, lol.


Sonya said...

Ha! Oh my! Well who knows, maybe he's still being quiet:)

PaigeR530 said...

OMG LOL. This is totally something I would do.

Gina said...

Hahahaha! I say you text him and ask him out one more time. Take it from me - quiet guys can be the best (AND can come out of their shells eventually).

Justine said...

OHMYGOSH!! Haha. I'm with Gina, ask him out again! Jon is a "quiet" guy, and I find he's a good balance to my sometimes crazy out-going-ness. :)

Katie @ Loves of Life said...

dying. how awful. and funny. awfully funny.

Melissa said...

This is funny. And not funny. Agree with Katie! I agree though that quiet guys can be the best ones! And mine DEFINITELY is not quiet at home haha. Crazy! But he was pretty quiet on our first couple of dates. Ask him out again!

Erica said...

Total palm to forehead moment. Oops!

Martha Woods said...

Oops! Well, I guess there are worse things to text after a first date. :P